152 W Washington St., Hagerstown, MD 21740  Get Directions  |  301-739-8717  |  [email protected]

Blog

Do I Have to Tell My Partner I Want an Abortion?

Navigating an unplanned pregnancy can be an overwhelming experience, especially when considering the option of abortion. It's a significant decision, and if you're contemplating whether to share your thoughts about abortion with your partner, it's worth considering if you feel safe.

Legally, you're not required to seek your partner's consent for an abortion. However, it can be beneficial to consider their perspective. 

Opening A Dialogue

Your pregnancy not only affects you but also your partner. When you start this conversation, focus on expressing your feelings and the reasons behind your thoughts rather than just the decision itself. This approach helps your partner understand your perspective better.

Choose a suitable time for this discussion, ensuring minimal distractions and a favorable location. Consider your partner's state of mind as well. Avoid times when they might be overly stressed or have had a challenging day.

Valuing Your Partner’s Thoughts

If you're seeking your partner's opinion in making this decision, be open to their questions and concerns. Your partner might have different views. They may want to consider parenting or making an adoption plan. Or they might worry about the implications of abortion. 

Their insights could provide you with perspectives you still need to consider. Let them know their opinion matters to you, even though the final decision is yours.

Prioritizing Your Safety

Your safety is paramount. If discussing the pregnancy with your partner doesn't feel safe, reach out for help. One reliable resource is the National Domestic Violence Hotline. You can contact them at 800-799-SAFE. Their team can provide guidance and support in navigating through such challenging situations.

You should also seek counsel from someone you trust, like a close friend or family member. It's essential to confide in someone about your situation before finalizing your decision. Remember, there's no need to rush.

Seeking Additional Support

For further guidance, consider reaching out to Hagerstown Area Pregnancy Clinic. Our team offers free, compassionate, and unbiased support. We can provide more information about your options, including pregnancy confirmation with a limited ultrasound. 

Schedule an appointment to explore the support available to you.

Remember, you're not alone in this journey. Our team is here to support you. You are valued and deserve the utmost care and consideration in these challenging times.